How can I know when I’m just making excuses?

I know that I make excuses. My family members point that out to me, and my friends (my very close friends) have told me that my excuse-making makes it difficult to trust me. But most times they don’t feel like excuses to me, they seem like the real reasons I’m late or don’t do what I had said I would do. How can I tell the difference between excuses and real reasons?

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God’s will includes complex process of making choices

What is the difference between drifting along in life and letting God do his will in your life? I have not really pursued a lot of my life goals because I love God and I want to please him by doing what he wants me to do in my life. Is this the wrong approach to goals in life and doing God's will?

By |2025-01-09T17:58:43+00:00March 5, 2024|Ask Fr. Mike|Comments Off on God’s will includes complex process of making choices